donno what to say, but personally not optimisted at all with what's going on in the country our disaster is that our set back at the time of the army forces rule to Egypt 1952 - 2011 is in people Japan & Korea set back was in infrastrcuture, Germany was in a dectator who caused a damage to the whole country, USSR was in their system of leadership, and so and so but none of them caused a set back in people which is the case in Egypt we - the Egyptians - need to change our mindsets, our believes except for religion believes, our thinking, our acting, ourselves this is really the hardest mission that will not show success maybe before 10 years minimum from now please God, help this country

Mubarak steps down

commenting on 2010 harvesting first point, like I was looking into the futur

on 25 January 2011, the Egyptian youth were planning over to have a demonestration in Tahrir square to ask for some demands, the strangest thing is that demonestration was planned over the pages of Face Book, and none of them even have dreamt to gain what they - or we - gained



the demonestration became a fight against the government on Friday, January 28, 2011 when the troops of people started ganging against the police.



the fight turned into a revolution on Wednesday February 02, 2011 when some people sent jokies over horses and camels to threaten the demonestrators in Tahrir and they failed,



counting the number of people who died because of the police shots then by the gangs that arrived on Wednesday, all the Egyptians turned to be in empathy with the protestors, and that led to the following results:

Mubarak stepped down on Friday February 11, 2011

2010 Harvesting

setting in Ain Sokhna on the morning of January 01, 2011 with Mony (my wife) and Judy (my daughter), recalling what was 2010 for me and my family

• I remember saying before 2010 start that this year is gonna be the last year for Mubarak (our dearest president) and that he might not make it till 2011 but there we are, 2011 starts and still Mubarak is here
• joining Grand Circle Travel team with the beginning of the year
• visiting Turkey (Istanbul) in February with the assist of Manal (Mony or Bobo) for three days was also a plus for me
• of course on April 11, Sunday having our little Judy was one of the best events in the whole year
• my mother turned 60 years on May and got retired
• my brother (Ramy) engagement with Shahenda,
• my friend Osama engagement with Riham
• my brother in law (Mohammed) engagement with Nagham

remember that these were the events of myself in life not worldwide
hope 2011 will be better and will have of good what we all wants

الصــــلاة

ما هو انت ممكن تفضل تصلَى طول عمرك وبرضه ماتتقبلش منك صلاة (على المنطق البشرى ) إلا لو ربنا أراد

إذن كيف تصلى بطريقة صحيحة:

الوضوء: ما هى سنن الوضوء وما هى فرائضه؟

سنن الوضوء:- إستحضار النيَة - التلفظ بالشهادة - الترتيب (أى القيام بغسل الأعضاء بالترتيب الذى نسمع عنه والذى سأكتبه فى الفرائض) - التثليث (أى غسل أى عضو ثلاث مرات) وقد أجمع الفقهاء أن مسح الرأس والأذن مرة واحدة تكفى حتى وإن أخذت بالتثليث - المضمضة - الإستنشاق - غسل الأذنين من الداخل والخارج .... هذا والله أعلم

فرائض الوضوء:- غسل اليدين الى الرسغين وواجب فيها تخليل الأصابع بالماء

غسل الوجه

غسل اليدين الى المرفقين ويراعى أن تبدأ من كف اليد وليس من الرسغ كما هو الخطأ الشائع

مسح بعض الرأس ويجب الإجتهاد فى الوصول لفروة الرأس وليس أطراف الشعر

غسل القمين إلى الكعبين ويراعى وجوب تخليل الأصابع بالماء

والله أعلم!!!!!

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الصلاة

لابد أولاً التوضيح بأن كل السنن تؤيد موقف الفرائض وتضاعف الحسنات بإذن الله وعلينا جميعاً - وانا اولهم - بالعمل بها قدر المستطاع

وإذا سألتمونى على رأيى الشخصى لأقول بأن معظمنا لا يصلَى بطريقة صحيحة فقط لأننا لا نحترم ما نفعل ولا نركز فيه بكل جوارحنا ... وهو للأسف ما يحدث أيضاً - وما أبرئ نفسى - عند قراءة القرآن فنحن كثيراً ما نسمع التالى

"الخشوع فى الصلاة" " اجعلها صلاة موَدع" "ليس لك من الصلاة إلا ما تعقل" ولكننا لا نعمل بذلك

والواقع انه علينا جميعاً ان ندرك معنى الخشوع واننا اذا أقمنا الصلاة وسرحنا فى أى جزء منها فإننا يجب ان نعيدها من انفسنا خيراً من الا تحسب لنا صلاة بل ومن الممكن ان تحسب علينا

رجاء من كل من يقرأ هذا : إذا دخلت فى الصلاة فلا تجعل تفكيرك فى أى شيئ أو اى حركة أو اى نظرة الا فيما تفعل وهو الصلاة ... افهم ما تقول واشعر به

وتذكر دائماً حديث الرسول صلَى الله عليه وسلم - من توضأ فأحسن الوضوء ثم قام إلى الصلاة فأحسن الصلاة غفر له ما تقدم من ذنبه .... مستنى ايه ما تقوم تنفذ

successful discussion with life partener

• when you discuss a problem, you have to discuss it within the box limit.... this means:

before starting discussion your opinion might be wrong, discussion doesn't mean to argue for proving your opinion, but to share it and think about the other opinions

• if discussion turned into arguement, man's opinion will be the solution, not because he is better but because he will take the consequences afterwards
• don't make "sorry" seem to be the hardest word, say it; it might help in cooling the tempers
• listen as much as you talk, otherwise, it's not a discussion
• commit to the agreed at the end of any discussion and find a way to put it on a solid land
• feel the useful results and share this feeling
• make the discussion take place on time, that will lead to a better results

Judy Marwan Yahia Emam Hamed El Akkad

my first kid

look who's coming
my baby girl
I am expecting my baby girl, wow
I can't believe it,
things change
when will you come my first child, I'll be waiting for you with your mam
do it fast and do it right